AOL definitely refuses all email if your server doesn't have reverse DNS setup.
While DA can serve reverse DNS for most of us it doesn't do any good, because our providers haven't assigned reverse DNS authority to us.
Even if you have reverse DNS set up properly by either you or your upstreame provider, it's still easy to get blocked by AOL...
If you have clients on your server who forward their email to their AOL account, and then while reading it on their AOL account press the "This is SPAM" button, AOL will temporarily block your server.
Before they do they should send you an email explaining what you have to do to get unblocked.
Jeff