John fixed this for me, thanks again John.
Anyway the problem arised after I tried the custombuild and then went back to customapache.
In case someone else runs into this problem delete all your user vhost includes and add
Include /etc/httpd/conf/extra/directadmin-vhosts.conf
Include /usr/local/directadmin/data/[B]user[/B]/httpd.conf
Include /etc/httpd/conf/extra/directadmin-vhosts.conf