I've got 256MB RAM and it seems to be using 140-150MB of it - all the time - even if nobody is on the website but myself. Is that normal? Right now it's running Directadmin with mail turned off.
httpd.conf
my.cnf
top - 18:16:57 up 20:01, 1 user, load average: 0.00, 0.00, 0.00
Tasks: 31 total, 1 running, 30 sleeping, 0 stopped, 0 zombie
Cpu(s): 0.2% us, 0.1% sy, 0.0% ni, 99.7% id, 0.0% wa, 0.0% hi, 0.0% si
Mem: 4136864k total, 4066628k used, 70236k free, 166620k buffers
Swap: 2096472k total, 592k used, 2095880k free, 1933400k cached
httpd.conf
Timeout 200
KeepAlive On
MaxKeepAliveRequests 120
KeepAliveTimeout 3
MinSpareServers 1
MaxSpareServers 5
StartServers 1
MaxClients 250
MaxRequestsPerChild 500
my.cnf
[mysqld]
max_connections = 200
port = 3306
socket = /var/lib/mysql/mysql.sock
skip-locking
interactive_timeout = 25
query_cache_type = 1
query_cache_size = 6M
query_cache_limit = 1M
thread_cache_size = 32
wait_timeout = 25
key_buffer_size = 512K
max_allowed_packet = 1M
table_cache = 4
join_buffer_size = 256K
sort_buffer_size = 100K
read_buffer_size = 256K
read_rnd_buffer_size = 256K
net_buffer_length = 2K
thread_stack = 64K
skip-bdb
skip-innodb