I don't know why you would joke. But as soon as you want to use MySQL server on your box you can not run it without mysqld. See the link from my previous post to learn details.
Regarding to your error see this
http://help.directadmin.com/item.php?id=236
i didt already chek that link half an hour ago before you post it , but i use debian 6 32 bit ... and its a guide for 64 bit im just going a bit mad on my self that i can fix it my self and i am searching on directadmin as well for help sorry about the 64 part my mistake i looked wrong atm after building ./build php n
i get this error
Make Complete
Copying php.ini..
/usr/local/lib/php.ini already exists, skipping.
Increasing memory limit to 32M...
Installing php...
Installing PHP SAPI module: apache2handler
/var/www/build/instdso.sh SH_LIBTOOL='/var/www/build/libtool' libphp5.la /usr/lib/apache
/var/www/build/libtool --mode=install cp libphp5.la /usr/lib/apache/
cp .libs/libphp5.so /usr/lib/apache/libphp5.so
cp .libs/libphp5.lai /usr/lib/apache/libphp5.la
libtool: install: warning: remember to run `libtool --finish /usr/local/directadmin/custombuild/php-5.2.17/libs'
chmod 755 /usr/lib/apache/libphp5.so
[activating module `php5' in /etc/httpd/conf/httpd.conf]
Installing PHP CLI binary: /usr/local/bin/
Installing PHP CLI man page: /usr/local/man/man1/
Installing build environment: /usr/local/lib/php/build/
Installing header files: /usr/local/include/php/
Installing helper programs: /usr/local/bin/
program: phpize
program: php-config
Installing man pages: /usr/local/man/man1/
page: phpize.1
page: php-config.1
Installing PEAR environment: /usr/local/lib/php/
Fatal error: Class 'PEAR' not found in phar://install-pear-nozlib.phar/index.php on line 24
make[1]: *** [install-pear-installer] Error 255
make: *** [install-pear] Error 2
and i have searched as mad on how to fix it