What I want to do is relay outgoing email say, for AOL.com (who keep blocking servers for "spamming" yet we get no warnings) through another server NOT being blocked.
BUT I don't want to send ANY apache (php) generated emails through this other server for fear of IT getting blocked too (99.9% of the spam problems are due to php scripts and it only takes a handful of spam emails to leave your server before Aol/Spamcop/SBC/etc will BLOCK your server with no warning and often, no appeal).
So I simply want to setup a forwarding situation, server wide, to forward all email EITHER for a couple domains (aol.com in particular) through another server but I don't ever want apache generated email to be relayed, it can just be delivered "as normal" and if it's blocked so be it. OR I want to simply forward ALL outoing email through a relaying server, but NOT for user apache.
Does this make sense? Anyway if you have any handle on how to make this happen I'll be appreciative of any help.
BUT I don't want to send ANY apache (php) generated emails through this other server for fear of IT getting blocked too (99.9% of the spam problems are due to php scripts and it only takes a handful of spam emails to leave your server before Aol/Spamcop/SBC/etc will BLOCK your server with no warning and often, no appeal).
So I simply want to setup a forwarding situation, server wide, to forward all email EITHER for a couple domains (aol.com in particular) through another server but I don't ever want apache generated email to be relayed, it can just be delivered "as normal" and if it's blocked so be it. OR I want to simply forward ALL outoing email through a relaying server, but NOT for user apache.
Does this make sense? Anyway if you have any handle on how to make this happen I'll be appreciative of any help.