FreeBSD 5.3
but thats the problem , i dont get any errors , i just get a message that mysql has starter [ ok ] and and it actually doesnt start and thus it does not stop.
server# /usr/local/etc/rc.d/mysqld start
Starting mysqld: [ OK ]
server# /usr/local/etc/rc.d/mysqld stop
Stopping mysqld: [ FAILED ]
server#