I just tested and some nameservers return cp.dxmhosting.com while others return
www.dxmhosting.com.
While either
should be okay (RFCs don't require that an rDNS entry match the forward entry, many email admins (including the gujys who admin for Craigslist, obviously) make an extra requirement: they require that the domain name returned by the rDNS lookup, when resolved, resolves to the same IP#.
So it appears that either your upstream contact has two entries in rDNS for 74.124.206.98, or you've got some leftover caching going on. I presume the latter because running:
Code:
$ dig -x 74.124.206.98 +trace
shows that ns1.corporatecolo.com and ns2.corporatecolo.com (the authoritative nameservers) are returning cp.dxmhosting.com.
I use google nameservers, and they're returning
www.dxmhosting.com, with a remaining time-to-live of 27,603 seconds (a bit under 8 hours).
So I suggest you check this 8 hours from now:
Code:
dig @8.8.4.4 -x 74.124.206.98
and see what you get. If you still get
www.dxmhosting.com, then google is picking up the wrong information; please post the entire reply if it's not pointing to cp.dxmhosting.com.
Notes to everyone: I checked emailsl from Neal to ascertain that his emails are in fact coming from where he things they are, and I've checked both paths (my logs) and mail headers.
Code:
$ dig @ns1.corporatecolo.com -x 74.124.206.98 +short
cp.dxmhosting.com.
$ dig -x 74.124.206.98 +short
www.dxmhosting.com.
The latter is using googlenameservers. The former is a direct query of the authoritative nameservers.
Jeff