thanks for the reply and offering your services. I'd rather learn and fix it myself
[root@~]# netstat -an | grep LISTEN | egrep ":80|:81"
tcp 0 0 <virtual ip>:81 0.0.0.0:* LISTEN
tcp 0 0 <virtual ip>:81 0.0.0.0:* LISTEN
tcp 0 0 <serverip>:81 0.0.0.0:* LISTEN
tcp 0 0 :::80 :::* LISTEN
apache 24090 0.6 1.3 29252 13612 ? S 18:34 0:00 /usr/sbin/httpd -k start -DSSL
apache 24092 0.9 2.1 39584 22056 ? S 18:34 0:00 /usr/sbin/httpd -k start -DSSL
apache 24096 0.2 1.9 35892 20256 ? S 18:34 0:00 /usr/sbin/httpd -k start -DSSL
apache 24120 0.3 1.7 35752 17840 ? S 18:34 0:00 /usr/sbin/httpd -k start -DSSL
apache 24495 0.0 1.4 30892 14756 ? S 18:35 0:00 /usr/sbin/httpd -k start -DSSL
apache 24496 1.0 2.1 39892 22164 ? S 18:35 0:00 /usr/sbin/httpd -k start -DSSL
apache 24516 1.5 3.6 55496 38040 ? S 18:35 0:00 /usr/sbin/httpd -k start -DSSL
apache 24519 0.1 1.2 28996 13224 ? S 18:35 0:00 /usr/sbin/httpd -k start -DSSL
apache 24521 2.7 4.0 58244 41984 ? S 18:35 0:00 /usr/sbin/httpd -k start -DSSL
apache 24522 0.0 1.2 29124 12672 ? S 18:35 0:00 /usr/sbin/httpd -k start -DSSL
apache 24524 0.0 1.1 28740 12364 ? S 18:35 0:00 /usr/sbin/httpd -k start -DSSL
apache 24535 1.1 1.7 36008 17876 ? S 18:35 0:00 /usr/sbin/httpd -k start -DSSL
apache 24536 0.0 1.1 28592 12084 ? S 18:35 0:00 /usr/sbin/httpd -k start -DSSL
apache 24537 0.0 1.1 28592 12112 ? S 18:35 0:00 /usr/sbin/httpd -k start -DSSL
apache 24539 0.0 0.0 0 0 ? Z 18:35 0:00 [httpd] <defunct>
apache 24540 0.0 1.1 28592 11540 ? S 18:35 0:00 /usr/sbin/httpd -k start -DSSL
apache 24541 0.0 1.1 28592 11548 ? S 18:35 0:00 /usr/sbin/httpd -k start -DSSL
root 24548 0.0 0.0 4132 752 pts/0 R+ 18:35 0:00 egrep apache|nginx
root 28238 0.0 0.0 19576 284 ? Ss May29 0:00 nginx: master process /usr/local/nginx/sbin/nginx -c /usr/local/nginx/conf/nginx.conf
apache 28239 0.0 0.0 19888 804 ? S May29 0:00 nginx: worker process
apache 28240 0.0 0.0 19888 548 ? S May29 0:00 nginx: worker process
apache 28241 0.0 0.0 19736 484 ? S May29 0:00 nginx: cache manager process