OK just had ANOTHER server blocked by AOL, instead of staying on hold 45 minutes to get the server "whitelisted" (and it likely being blocked AGAIN tomorrow anyway) I'd rather just set Exim to use an external mail relay that all my other servers (running sendmail) use.
So how do I do that? Looking around google the settings I've seen don't work and gives errors on restarting exim so figured I'd ask here.
So how do I do that? Looking around google the settings I've seen don't work and gives errors on restarting exim so figured I'd ask here.