but this is kind of the problem with using control panel maintained packages like this.
That I don't understand. I don't see any difference if you upgrade yourself to Exim 4.95 or a control panel is doing it for you.
You run into the same issue and have to fix it.
The answer to all of this is to modify your Exim transports and add your own message_linelength_limit value.
Would be an answer if every MTA and mail client would comply to the RFC. Which is not the case.
As this is a nice notice to the customers, there is still the issue that all kinds of other things, amongst which are CSF/LFD messages are having messages too long and also other MTA's and email clients don't respect this limit.
So the only answer is the option to adjust the limit setting itself or at least have an option to do that.
Because there's a lot of administrators out there that don't understand how to configure all of this for themselves and have to depend on the control panel to provide this configuration.
Which is why I always state that admins should be admins and not click and play wannabe's, we got enough of those. And the customers will see that too on a certain point and choose decent hosting company's with admins with knowledge or starting admins which are eager to learn.
I will be very blunt about this but for the rest I don't care. You don't get to call yourself an admin if you don't even at the very least know how to fix the easiest things via SSH, panel or no panel. Some are even scared to login via SSH. Come on, then you're a hobbyist, not an admin worth of a lot of customers imho. Sorry.
Panels are out there to make live easier for admins, not to do take over the job for them. In spite of the fact that CP is doing that more or less, but you pay for that.... and learn nothing. If something goes really wrong, you have to wait until they have time for you. Good luck.
But such is the burden of having to depend on control panel system to maintain these packages.
You can also do it yourself, without control panel. But it will be a lot more work to maintain your server and keep it updates, create packages etc. etc. etc.
There is an easy workaround to downgrade to Exim 4.94.2. But if you want to use 4.94 and not have this long line issue for the customers, indeed you have to wait until the used control panel (whatever one) is coming with some include statement.
However it's also possible to temporarily create one yourself. There ware already some solutions mentioned. It's also possible to for the time being, after making that change to chattr the exim.conf so you're not all that dependend from the control panel.
At least nog here at DA imho.